I never thought of answering such an interesting question in my life when my friend asked me this. What would you like to be born in your next rebirth if god gives you one more chance? I know some of the people should have thought of this. This question seems like very simple to answer. But the real meaning of that subject implies to lot of questions which u can analyze your entire life incidents to think of an answer. As we all say god never let anyone to be happy always. All our life is a balanced form of happiness and sadness. Anyone thought of that why it is like that. Why a person can't be happy always in his or her life.
From now onwards I am going to tell you something which we wouldn't have thought in our life most of the times. For getting an answer for this you need to realize the indisputable fact that we all are alone in this world. All our body is holding our own individual souls. But most of them don't realize that. In everyone's life there will be one situation that he or she himself will think that they are alone in this world.
When a baby is born he is not only coming into this new world but to a share of relationships, which will be haunting his whole life. I am not saying that I dislike like relationships and all. No human have right to say that. The main reason is we can't forget the care and love given by our parents. When I am telling all this you may be thinking that its advance thinking or something. I am just writing what I feel like and what I know in my life. Most of the people may not agree with me. But when you think deeply I am sure you will know what I am telling is the truth. God will show you once in your life and that's with a perfect example.
You know most of the humans are weak hearted because they are afraid and worried about hurting their loved once. Their family, their wife, kids. When we are about to take a decision we have to think of everyone and must make sure that no one is hurt because of what I am doing. When we are born our parents have already dreamed of making their child the best one in this world and they will care and train their kids based on their wish and their aim about their child. No parents have a bad intension that my kid must grow like the worse kid in this world. But I am just telling you the flow of our life. I am also a responsible guy from my family. I love my parents and my brother more then anything in this world.
The happiest people in this world if you ask me I will say saints, munis who spend their whole life for prayers and never think of anything. No barrier of relationships. They submitted themselves into god. They have no one to care about, they have no one to complain, and they have no one to think of before taking a decision. They are free from everything. They can go anywhere. They know only to love. They show the people the way of god. Normal human being can't imagine the happiness the are getting from what they are doing. Because we are busy with dealing our life with our daily routines. And we don't want to be like them because of our relation barrier. You can't ever think of changing into a saint by leaving our family, wife and your kids. This makes us weak.
When my friend asked me that question I could only think of being born as a saint in my next life and get all my happiness which I missed in this life… so What would be your answer for this question?
Regards
Vivekmannil
Vivekmannil