Hi everyone, I hope by now you all would have known my name. Today I am going to share my experience about my life with all of you. We all come through different stages of life. No one is born as an adult, certain things we will learn only through our experiences. Our parents also learn things like that, and they are still learning. So it means in every stage of our life we are learning something. Learning things will help you in your life to survive or we can say it will make you smart and help you how to deal with your life.
People do mistakes, but once they come out from it most of the people wont repeat the same mistake again. It means we have learned something from it. And we know if you repeat the mistake again it's just a waste of your energy and causes tension in many other ways. God has given this power of realization to all living things here. Even if you give cat hot milk two or three times, the next time it wont come and wouldn't even bother to look at the milk that you are giving.
Ok now you will be thinking why in am talking about realization power in this article by keeping the heading as Family. There is a reason. I also realized so many things in my life. But I think I did it too late in my life. There are certain reasons for that as well.
Before I start I would like to thank my father, mother and brother who did everything for me in this world. I am proud of them. I was brought up like a normal boy. My parents never pamper me a lot. During school days if I recall there weren't any day I had escaped from beating and scolding from my mum. I wondered if the same things had happened in all houses. For confirmation I did ask around my friends. Some said their parents never beat, some said they don't care what he does. But all this answers were not very satisfying for me. Because who admits that they are getting their quota every day from their parents. There was one situation where I refused to go back to home after school thus I purposely hanged around with friends and went home very late. Ok that was during school time.
Days passed and I becoming an adult. My friends changed and my expenses also increased. I started asking more money from my parents, I mean pocket money. Most of my friends at that time were from very good family, so they never had a problem in getting plenty of pocket money. But I always have a problem when it comes to money. My parents gave me only sufficient enough money and made sure each and every penny I spend is for very necessary things only. When I ask for more money my parents will start the same old story like you don't know the value of money, when u start earning then only you know about it and all. I will leave the place when they start this story in front of me. The worse part is when I don't have much concentration in listening the story again problem. My mom will say you no responsibilities, as your dad is here to do everything for you but think what you all are going to do after he retires. She always says that she has no hope on her 2 sons. Sometimes I felt like just leaving the house and go somewhere. I had nights where I cried the whole time just thinking of my moms' sharp words.
Now I am 23 years old. I know a bit of what life is. I travelled to so many places and met so many different kinds of people. I earned a lot of experiences about people's life. I suffered a lot in my life without food, money and lot of things. Now I remember the words of my father and my mother. When they keep on torturing me by telling the difficulties of making money I made a decision that I will never say this to my kids. But after experiencing so many things now I understand why my mom and dad kept on telling that to me. The main purpose of telling that to me was that for me to gain some knowledge about the difficulties of life. You don't know the happiness I got when I got my first salary; tears came out from my eyes. And the next thing I did was I called my dad and mom and told them that I got the first salary. My dad said, we had given you so much of pain by hurting your feelings. You please don't be angry with us. Now I think you got all the answers and reasons as to why we were telling this to you. At that moment I was lost for words.
I respect and I love my parents than anything else in this world. The only mistake I did was I took so long to realize their love towards me. It happens in everyone's life. So before getting irritated with your parent's, my advice is please think a moment. Sooner or later you also will realize this. But don't take too long to realize your parent's love towards you.
People do mistakes, but once they come out from it most of the people wont repeat the same mistake again. It means we have learned something from it. And we know if you repeat the mistake again it's just a waste of your energy and causes tension in many other ways. God has given this power of realization to all living things here. Even if you give cat hot milk two or three times, the next time it wont come and wouldn't even bother to look at the milk that you are giving.
Ok now you will be thinking why in am talking about realization power in this article by keeping the heading as Family. There is a reason. I also realized so many things in my life. But I think I did it too late in my life. There are certain reasons for that as well.
Before I start I would like to thank my father, mother and brother who did everything for me in this world. I am proud of them. I was brought up like a normal boy. My parents never pamper me a lot. During school days if I recall there weren't any day I had escaped from beating and scolding from my mum. I wondered if the same things had happened in all houses. For confirmation I did ask around my friends. Some said their parents never beat, some said they don't care what he does. But all this answers were not very satisfying for me. Because who admits that they are getting their quota every day from their parents. There was one situation where I refused to go back to home after school thus I purposely hanged around with friends and went home very late. Ok that was during school time.
Days passed and I becoming an adult. My friends changed and my expenses also increased. I started asking more money from my parents, I mean pocket money. Most of my friends at that time were from very good family, so they never had a problem in getting plenty of pocket money. But I always have a problem when it comes to money. My parents gave me only sufficient enough money and made sure each and every penny I spend is for very necessary things only. When I ask for more money my parents will start the same old story like you don't know the value of money, when u start earning then only you know about it and all. I will leave the place when they start this story in front of me. The worse part is when I don't have much concentration in listening the story again problem. My mom will say you no responsibilities, as your dad is here to do everything for you but think what you all are going to do after he retires. She always says that she has no hope on her 2 sons. Sometimes I felt like just leaving the house and go somewhere. I had nights where I cried the whole time just thinking of my moms' sharp words.
Now I am 23 years old. I know a bit of what life is. I travelled to so many places and met so many different kinds of people. I earned a lot of experiences about people's life. I suffered a lot in my life without food, money and lot of things. Now I remember the words of my father and my mother. When they keep on torturing me by telling the difficulties of making money I made a decision that I will never say this to my kids. But after experiencing so many things now I understand why my mom and dad kept on telling that to me. The main purpose of telling that to me was that for me to gain some knowledge about the difficulties of life. You don't know the happiness I got when I got my first salary; tears came out from my eyes. And the next thing I did was I called my dad and mom and told them that I got the first salary. My dad said, we had given you so much of pain by hurting your feelings. You please don't be angry with us. Now I think you got all the answers and reasons as to why we were telling this to you. At that moment I was lost for words.
I respect and I love my parents than anything else in this world. The only mistake I did was I took so long to realize their love towards me. It happens in everyone's life. So before getting irritated with your parent's, my advice is please think a moment. Sooner or later you also will realize this. But don't take too long to realize your parent's love towards you.
regards
vivekmannil
